Category Archives: Helping

What is your journey? – A Testimony to Life

“A man sooner or later discovers that he is the master-gardener of his soul, the director of his life.”
-James Allen

We all have a journey.

Some have a bucket list, some a mission and others are just content being ignorant assholes that are so narrow-minded by prejudice and stereotype that they contribute to the hatred in our society.

Throughout this journey of life, we will all get lost. Each day is a path of twists and turns, corners of darkness and visions of light. If a day did not go by where we thought for a brief moment, an end would simply and shorten the madness we love and hate so much we would not be human. In the end, the journey is about something. It is a quest for moral right and a rendezvous with destiny.

It all works out though.

Some have a short journey while others are long and full of evolutionary change.

Life is never about you!

We all find what we are looking for and in the end, it is never about us. Think about it. Is it about your daughter who looks at you each morning with her baby blue eyes and smiles at the sight of your morning glow? Is it your partner for life who you sacrificed your soul to spend every breathing day of your life with? Is in your mother and father who led by example and shaped you into the person you are? Is it the refugee camp that is suffering from death and disease that you have dedicated yourself to saving? Is it your true love who soul was brought to you in an act of fate? Is it the music and lyrics that touch millions of lives and turn a lost soul away from the bridge to live one more day?

We are here with purpose.
We are given the gift of breath.

What fascinates my mental being is how some of us choose to get lost in the sea of uncertainty. All too often we guess and second guess our own purpose in life without accepting that we are fulfilling it through our passions, our actions, our unselfish hand and ultimately the lives we help bring meaning to.

We are all granted the ability to be angels on earth with a chance to hold out our hand and offer shelter to those in need.

I love that we all have gifts and talents. Some is through song, some strength, some compassion but at the end of the day, the gifts we use are not for us, not for self-fulfillment or any personal pleasure. They are for the stranger in the street, the homeless child, the girl with the broken heart, the sick friend.

Find your purpose and share it.

It’s all about love

How amazing is a life where we have this much power to help others. No matter what our talent, no matter what we say or do it is all guided by one common force that brings us all together; love.

Love is and will always be the answer to life’s unanswered questions. No matter which direction we go, love is all around us.

How can you not wake up each morning and smile with that thought dancing in your head.

I know I can’t.


Share Your Random Acts of Kindness (All Comments Welcome)

Today, November 13th is the annual day we acknowledge as World Kindness Day. It is a day we reflect on all of the wonderful and generous acts of kindness we commit throughout the year.

Whether your generosity is shared with family, friends or community or extends to the the prospect of kindness to strangers, it is the thoughtless act of helping others that provides us with the fortitude that there is goodness and caring in this crazy whirlwind of a world we live in.

On this day, we ask you to share with us the answer to this simple question:

WHAT ACTS OF KINDNESS HAVE YOU PERFORMED FOR OTHERS?

Please provide your comments below so others can share in the positive energy you give with each moment of reaching out to help another.


We are all healers…..

This morning I had brunch at Cork Bistro. Not because of the amazing reputation of the chef or the diverse menu selection, but because of Burk. Burk was a long time resident and cornerstone of the community. A simple man who enjoyed a shot of Bucca and a Budweiser. In memory of his passing, 20% of all sales today are being donated to a local children’s organization. In passing, the man and his legacy continues on to help the next generation have all the chances at a great life similar to the one he led. Burk was a kind man with a warm heart who cared about his family, friends and the community and the power of that influence has carried over even while he lay in his eternal resting place. That is a healer.

Healer*:

1. To make healthy, whole, or sound; restore to health; free from ailment.
2. To bring to an end or conclusion, as conflicts between people or groups, usually with the strong
implication of restoring former amity; settle; reconcile: They tried to heal the rift between them but
were unsuccessful.
3. To free from evil; cleanse; purify: to heal the soul.

*Courtesy of Dictionary.com

In the last week, two individual whom I have closely counseled and provided guidance and assistance to in their pursuit of a perfect career move found their calling and were recognized for the true talent they bestow.

Emily upon receiving a job offer one hour after the conclusion of her interview in Silicon Valley sent me an instant message:

“I got the job! I got the job! After 22 months of looking and 12 months in San Francisco, I’m moving”

It was such an uplifting message to be compared to the great speeches of Braveheart or Lou Gehrig.
Ok, maybe not to that extreme, but to see the enthusiasm and pure exhilaration in her heart was the most rewarding thing I could ever ask for.

Transforming herself from a young benefits analyst in the non-profit sector to an HR Business Leader supporting all human resource functions for a fast paced technology company, Emily has found her dream calling. That is quite a testimony to her potential and her skills. All this came about with hard work, diligence, and the ability to leverage her abilities and expose herself to network within her industry who found and recognized her passion and aptitude.

Candice recently took advantage of an open niche and transformed, in true Wonder Woman style, from a career in education to a Social Media Consultant without limits or boundaries. She has tirelessly educated herself on the key elements of social media studying the marketing, branding, image recognition, networking and communication domains to put herself in a position to not only shift career paths, but to be a successful consultive asset. She has started a new company and has been approached and hired as the one and only social media consultant for a media/web design company. This is a tremendous accomplishment for a woman who just learned what Twitter was no more than a year ago.

We all have the ability to heal. Whether we are doctors, athletes, educators or industry leaders, our expertise is a tool to be shared. We have to power to influence others and help guide them to a path of success. We can fall into the deep trenches of recession and let statistics and money weigh down our mood or use the talents we possess to reach out to the community and offer ourselves to those that really can benefit from our wisdom and direction. Now is the time, more than ever to heal.

It is that medicine that, in the end, will end up healing you with a sense of satisfaction and accomplishment.

When you help someone, you aren’t just doing a good deed, you are healing because pain is not often felt from just the outside.


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